Hayatta her bireyin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, duru\u015flar\u0131 ve yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 bir spektrum \u00fczerinde yer al\u0131r. Benim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131m u\u00e7 noktalarda yer al\u0131yor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de asl\u0131nda bu u\u00e7 noktan\u0131n bir di\u011fer ucunda yer alan cemaatlerin kat\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha farkl\u0131, esnek ve sorgulay\u0131c\u0131 bir zihin yap\u0131s\u0131na sahibim. Fikirlerimi de\u011ferlendirirken, ba\u011fnaz bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye sahip olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 rahatl\u0131kla s\u00f6yleyebilirim. Benim d\u00fcnyam sabit bir noktaya \u00e7ivilenmi\u015f bir fikir yap\u0131s\u0131yla s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 de\u011fil; tam tersine s\u00fcrekli ara\u015ft\u0131ran, \u00f6\u011frenen ve \u00f6\u011frendik\u00e7e bilgilerini g\u00fcncelleyen bir bireyim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu esnek yakla\u015f\u0131m yaln\u0131zca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131mla s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 de\u011fil; izledi\u011fim filmlerden dinledi\u011fim m\u00fcziklere kadar her alanda kendini g\u00f6steriyor. Sabit fikirli, muhafazak\u00e2r bir insan olman\u0131n aksine, her zaman yeniliklere a\u00e7\u0131k, gelece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen ve lider bir zihniyete sahibim. Hayat\u0131m boyunca bir koyunu takip edip onunla birlikte u\u00e7urumdan atlamaktansa, kendi yolumu \u00e7izip, y\u00f6neten tarafta olmay\u0131 tercih ettim. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, benim i\u00e7in daima okuma, geli\u015fme ve sorgulama ile m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bilgilerim ve ufkum geli\u015ftik\u00e7e, \u00e7evremdeki baz\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015flara sessiz kalmak benim i\u00e7in zorla\u015f\u0131yor. S\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftiren bir yap\u0131ya sahip olmam belki baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 rahats\u0131z ediyor, ancak bu ele\u015ftirilerimde yaln\u0131zca ba\u015fkalar\u0131na odaklanm\u0131yorum. Kendi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 da s\u0131k s\u0131k sorguluyor, hatalar\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fczeltmek i\u00e7in \u00e7abal\u0131yorum. U\u00e7 fikirli olman\u0131n getirebilece\u011fi sorunlar\u0131n fark\u0131nda oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in, bu t\u00fcr bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131s\u0131na sahip olan insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 her zaman mesafeli oldum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aile yap\u0131mda, \u00f6zellikle baz\u0131lar\u0131 hari\u00e7, u\u00e7 fikirli ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 muhafazak\u00e2r bir ki\u015fili\u011fin olmamas\u0131 da bu mesafeyi korumam\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. Bu noktada, seni de tan\u0131d\u0131k\u00e7a fark ettim ki, benim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarz\u0131m ve sorgulay\u0131c\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m sana daha yak\u0131n ve anlaml\u0131 gelmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Benden \u00f6nce, u\u00e7 fikirli insanlarla uyum sa\u011flama ihtimalin vard\u0131 belki, ancak beni tan\u0131d\u0131ktan sonra onlarla olan ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131n giderek zay\u0131flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hatta onlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n seni rahats\u0131z etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemledim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sorgulamaya ba\u015flad\u0131n. \u00c7ocukken sana \u00f6\u011fretilen kal\u0131pla\u015fm\u0131\u015f dikta d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri art\u0131k umursam\u0131yorsun; onlar\u0131 sorguluyorsun. \u00dcstelik, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na da sana dayat\u0131lanlar\u0131 dayatm\u0131yor, onlara daha \u00f6zg\u00fcr bir birey olma yolunda rehberlik ediyorsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ben, \u00f6\u011frendik\u00e7e her zaman kendimi “i\u015fini \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan azimli bir \u00e7\u0131rak” olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Bu sayede \u00f6\u011frenmeye a\u00e7\u0131k bir zihinle ilerledim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc “ben biliyorum” dedi\u011fin an, ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan \u00f6\u011frenme kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 kapat\u0131rs\u0131n. Biz de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za bu yakla\u015f\u0131mla rehberlik edece\u011fiz. Onlara do\u011fruyu, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, hak yememeyi ve ayakta durmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretece\u011fiz. Zamanla, \u00f6zg\u00fcr bir birey olarak kendi tercih ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini olu\u015fturmalar\u0131na f\u0131rsat tan\u0131yaca\u011f\u0131z. Bizim sorumlulu\u011fumuz, onlara do\u011fru de\u011ferleri kazand\u0131rmak ve kararlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcrce verebilecek bireyler olarak yeti\u015fmelerine destek olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayatta her bireyin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, duru\u015flar\u0131 ve yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 bir spektrum \u00fczerinde yer al\u0131r. Benim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131m u\u00e7 noktalarda yer al\u0131yor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de asl\u0131nda bu u\u00e7 noktan\u0131n bir di\u011fer ucunda yer alan cemaatlerin kat\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha farkl\u0131, esnek ve sorgulay\u0131c\u0131 bir zihin yap\u0131s\u0131na sahibim. Fikirlerimi de\u011ferlendirirken, ba\u011fnaz bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye sahip olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 rahatl\u0131kla s\u00f6yleyebilirim. Benim […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":366,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-365","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guncel-konular","category-makalelerim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/365","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=365"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/365\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":367,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/365\/revisions\/367"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/366"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=365"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=365"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=365"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}