{"id":478,"date":"2025-06-03T19:48:24","date_gmt":"2025-06-03T19:48:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/?p=478"},"modified":"2025-06-03T20:10:23","modified_gmt":"2025-06-03T20:10:23","slug":"gurbette-bir-omur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/?p=478","title":{"rendered":"Gurbette Bir \u00d6m\u00fcr:"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Gurbette Bir \u00d6m\u00fcr: Ekme\u011fin Pe\u015finde Kaybolan Hayatlar<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Her sabah ayn\u0131 \u00e7antay\u0131 omzuna at\u0131p ayn\u0131 yollara d\u00fc\u015fen bir adam var. Ne zengin olmak istiyor, ne g\u00f6steri\u015f… Sadece evine ekmek g\u00f6t\u00fcrmenin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na gelecek kurman\u0131n, e\u015finin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc biraz olsun hafifletmenin derdinde. Y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 evinden, yurdundan uzak ge\u00e7iren bu adam\u0131n ad\u0131 belki Mehmet, belki Ali, belki de senin tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n biri. Ama hik\u00e2yesi hepimizin hik\u00e2yesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yorgun Ama Mecbur: Gurbette \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmak<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Gurbette \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan sadece “i\u015f i\u00e7in \u015fehir de\u011fi\u015ftirmek” gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Ama asl\u0131nda bir \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fck bir hasrettir bu. Sabahlar\u0131 simit kokusuna de\u011fil, beton kokusuna uyanmakt\u0131r. Ak\u015famlar\u0131 \u00e7ocuk sesleri yerine yaln\u0131zl\u0131kla ba\u015f ba\u015fa kalmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bayram sabahlar\u0131n\u0131 telefondan kutlamak, do\u011fum g\u00fcnlerinde video izlemek, \u00e7ocu\u011funun okul g\u00f6sterisini yaln\u0131zca e\u015finin anlatt\u0131klar\u0131yla hayal etmektir. G\u00f6z g\u00f6re g\u00f6re ka\u00e7an y\u0131llard\u0131r gurbette ge\u00e7en \u00f6m\u00fcr. Ve insan bir s\u00fcre sonra kendini de\u011fil, evini \u00f6zlemeye ba\u015flar. E\u015fini, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131, memleketini…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Telefonun \u00f6b\u00fcr ucunda g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen \u00e7ocuklar vard\u0131r. Ama sesin i\u00e7indeki bo\u015fluk, uzakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n tarifidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, sadece ekmekle de\u011fil, sevgiyle de doyar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Geride Kalanlar\u0131n Sessiz Y\u00fck\u00fc<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Gurbette \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n \u00e7ekti\u011fi zordur, ama geride kalanlar\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fc de sessizdir, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmezdir. Evde bir kad\u0131n vard\u0131r, hem anne, hem baba olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan. Evin eksiklerini tamamlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sorular\u0131na sab\u0131rla cevap veren, kendi yorgunlu\u011funu saklayan bir kad\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve \u00e7ocuklar\u2026 Onlar i\u00e7in baba bir kahramand\u0131r ama ayn\u0131 zamanda bir yabanc\u0131. Haftada bir, belki ayda bir g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc aramalarda g\u00f6r\u00fclen; birlikte oyun oynanmam\u0131\u015f, omzunda uyunmam\u0131\u015f, dizine ba\u015f koyulmam\u0131\u015f bir baba\u2026 Baba evin dire\u011fidir derler ama o direk ba\u015fka bir yerde, ba\u015fka bir evde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cBaba beni seviyor ama neden hep uzakta?\u201d sorusu, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011finde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir bo\u015fluktur.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Neden Katlan\u0131l\u0131r Bu Hasrete?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Bu bir mecburiyettir. Kimse gurbete keyfinden \u00e7\u0131kmaz. Kimi bir ev almak ister, kimi bir \u00e7ocuk okutmak, kimi hastane borcunu kapatmak… Ama hep bir umut u\u011fruna katlan\u0131l\u0131r. Bir g\u00fcn d\u00f6nece\u011fim diyerek, \u201cbu son i\u015f\u201d diyerek…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131lar\u0131 d\u00f6ner, baz\u0131lar\u0131 hasretle yolda kal\u0131r. Ama hepsi bir iz b\u0131rak\u0131r ard\u0131nda: Yorgun bedenler, k\u0131rg\u0131n kalpler, eksik \u00e7ocukluklar…ya bunca u\u011fra\u015fa ra\u011fmen d\u00f6nemeyenler ..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fark Edilmesi Gereken Bir Ger\u00e7ek<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Toplum gurbet\u00e7iye genellikle \u015fu g\u00f6zle bakar: “\u0130yi kazan\u0131yor, rahat ya\u015f\u0131yor.” Oysa kimse o paran\u0131n bedelini sormaz. G\u00fcnde 12 saat \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, evlat hasretinin ka\u00e7 para etti\u011fini bilen var m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu insanlar sadece para kazanm\u0131yor; zamanlar\u0131n\u0131, sevdiklerini, sa\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 da veriyorlar. Ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kimse fark etmiyor onlar\u0131n da bir omza, bir te\u015fekk\u00fcre, bir anlay\u0131\u015fa ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Son S\u00f6z: Bir Selam da Onlara Olsun<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Gurbette y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 veren babalara, e\u015flere, annelere ve \u00e7ocuklara… Sizi g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, sessizli\u011finizi, i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e yuttu\u011funuz g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Belki herkes fark\u0131nda de\u011fil ama siz bu toplumun g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen kahramanlar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 kahramanlar g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez. Ellerinde k\u00fcrek de\u011fil, al\u0131nlar\u0131nda ter, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerinde hasret ta\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Gurbette Bir \u00d6m\u00fcr: Ekme\u011fin Pe\u015finde Kaybolan Hayatlar Her sabah ayn\u0131 \u00e7antay\u0131 omzuna at\u0131p ayn\u0131 yollara d\u00fc\u015fen bir adam var. Ne zengin olmak istiyor, ne g\u00f6steri\u015f… Sadece evine ekmek g\u00f6t\u00fcrmenin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na gelecek kurman\u0131n, e\u015finin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc biraz olsun hafifletmenin derdinde. Y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 evinden, yurdundan uzak ge\u00e7iren bu adam\u0131n ad\u0131 belki Mehmet, belki Ali, belki de senin tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n biri. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":481,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[42,40,41,43],"class_list":["post-478","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guncel-konular","tag-calismak","tag-gurbet","tag-is","tag-yurtdisi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/478","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=478"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/478\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":479,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/478\/revisions\/479"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/481"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=478"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=478"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=478"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}