{"id":483,"date":"2025-06-15T10:18:37","date_gmt":"2025-06-15T10:18:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/?p=483"},"modified":"2025-06-15T10:22:30","modified_gmt":"2025-06-15T10:22:30","slug":"babalar-gunu-kutlu-olsun-ama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/?p=483","title":{"rendered":"Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc Kutlu Olsun\u2026 Ama"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn Tarih\u00e7esi: Bir Amerikan \u0130\u00e7 Sava\u015f\u0131<\/a> gazisinin k\u0131z\u0131 olan Sonora Smart Dodd, Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc<\/a> gibi babalar\u0131n da bir g\u00fcn\u00fc olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekteydi.[1]<\/a><\/sup> Dodd’un babas\u0131 annelerinin yoklu\u011funda 6 \u00e7ocu\u011funu tek ba\u015f\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fctm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.[1]<\/a><\/sup> Babas\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc olan 5 Haziran’\u0131n Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc ilan edilmesi i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f ama bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar o tarihe yeti\u015femeyerek kutlamalar haziran ay\u0131n\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc pazar g\u00fcn\u00fcne ertelenmi\u015ftir.[2]<\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc ilk kez 19 Haziran 1910’da\u00a0Washington<\/a>‘un Spokane \u015fehrinde kutlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.[1]<\/a><\/sup>\u00a01924 y\u0131l\u0131nda Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri Ba\u015fkan\u0131\u00a0Calvin Coolidge<\/a>\u00a0kutlamalar\u0131 desteklemi\u015f; ama resmi olarak Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc ilan etmemi\u015ftir.[3]<\/a><\/sup>\u00a01966 y\u0131l\u0131nda ise o d\u00f6nemin ba\u015fkan\u0131\u00a0Lyndon Johnson<\/a>, her y\u0131l haziran ay\u0131n\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc pazar\u0131n\u0131n Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc olarak kutlanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayan bir bildiri yay\u0131mlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 1972 y\u0131l\u0131nda ise ba\u015fkan\u00a0Richard Nixon<\/a>‘\u0131n imzas\u0131yla Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc yasal olarak\u00a0ABD<\/a>‘de resmi tatil ilan edilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bug\u00fcn Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc. Her y\u0131l Haziran\u2019\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc haftas\u0131nda, sosyal medya sayfalar\u0131; babalarla \u00e7ekilmi\u015f foto\u011fraflar, duygusal mesajlar ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ellerinden yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f notlarla dolup ta\u015far. Bug\u00fcn de \u00f6yle\u2026 WhatsApp durumlar\u0131nda arkada\u015flar, akrabalar, e\u015f dost; ya babalar\u0131na olan sevgilerini anlat\u0131yor ya da art\u0131k hayatta olmayan babalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zlemle an\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ben ise bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 yazarken sa\u011f elimle iki ayl\u0131k o\u011flumun be\u015fi\u011fini sall\u0131yorum. Sol tara\u0131mfa bilgisayar\u0131m a\u00e7\u0131k, birka\u00e7 kelime karal\u0131yorum; sonra tekrar be\u015fi\u011fi hafif\u00e7e sall\u0131yorum. G\u00f6z\u00fcm hem ekranda, hem o\u011flumda. Birka\u00e7 sat\u0131r yaz\u0131yor, birka\u00e7 kez sall\u0131yorum. Bu sat\u0131rlar hem bug\u00fcn\u00fc anlat\u0131yor hem ge\u00e7mi\u015ften bir yara…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben\u2026 Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn ne anlama geldi\u011fini y\u0131llar sonra \u00f6\u011frendim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ben dokuz ya\u015f\u0131mdan beri baba g\u00f6rmedim. Asl\u0131nda dokuz ya\u015f\u0131mdan \u00f6nce de do\u011fru d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir baba g\u00f6rmedim. \u00c7ocukken ak\u015famlar\u0131 babam\u0131z\u0131n araba sesini daha mahalleye girmeden, y\u00fczlerce metre \u00f6teden duydu\u011fumuzda \u201cBaba geldi!\u201d diye sevinmezdik. Aksine, korkudan nereye saklanaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fck. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz korkuyla b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcld\u00fck. Ne bir \u015fefkat g\u00f6rd\u00fck, ne de koruyucu bir baba omuzu\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ben babal\u0131\u011f\u0131, baba olduktan sonra \u00f6\u011frendim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015ften yorgun arg\u0131n eve d\u00f6nerken, kap\u0131da beni bekleyen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n \u201cBaba geldi!\u201d diye sevin\u00e7le ba\u011f\u0131rmalar\u0131, i\u00e7imdeki eksik bir yan\u0131m\u0131 tamaml\u0131yor gibi oluyor. O an, \u201cBen baba olmu\u015fum,\u201d diyorum gururla. Ama sonra birden, i\u00e7imde bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm beliriyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendi \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumu hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sevin\u00e7le kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir baba de\u011fil, korkuyla sakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir fig\u00fcrd\u00fc benim tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu y\u00fczden Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc benim i\u00e7in hep biraz eksik, hep biraz yar\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baba sevgisiyle b\u00fcy\u00fcyen insanlar\u0131n hislerini belki hi\u00e7 anlayamayaca\u011f\u0131m. Babas\u0131n\u0131 minnetle, gururla ananlarla empati kuramayaca\u011f\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o duyguyu hi\u00e7 ya\u015famad\u0131m. Ama bu benim i\u00e7in bir son de\u011fil. Ben bu zinciri k\u0131rd\u0131m. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131ma sevgiyle yakla\u015farak, onlara g\u00fcvenli bir omuz, \u015fefkatli bir ses, s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131lacak bir baba olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okuyan herkese, bir baba olarak bir ricam var: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kalbinde bir korku de\u011fil, bir huzur olun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir \u00e7ocuk, baba kelimesini duydu\u011funda y\u00fcz\u00fcnde g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme beliriyorsa, i\u015fte as\u0131l Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc odur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00fcm y\u00fcre\u011fiyle baba olan, y\u00fcre\u011finde baba ta\u015f\u0131yan, baba olmay\u0131 y\u00fcre\u011finde hisseden herkesin Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc kutlu olsun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn Tarih\u00e7esi: Bir Amerikan \u0130\u00e7 Sava\u015f\u0131 gazisinin k\u0131z\u0131 olan Sonora Smart Dodd, Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc gibi babalar\u0131n da bir g\u00fcn\u00fc olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekteydi.[1] Dodd’un babas\u0131 annelerinin yoklu\u011funda 6 \u00e7ocu\u011funu tek ba\u015f\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fctm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.[1] Babas\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc olan 5 Haziran’\u0131n Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc ilan edilmesi i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f ama bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar o tarihe yeti\u015femeyerek kutlamalar haziran ay\u0131n\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc pazar g\u00fcn\u00fcne ertelenmi\u015ftir.[2] Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc ilk […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":484,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-483","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guncel-konular","category-makalelerim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/483","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=483"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/483\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":487,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/483\/revisions\/487"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/484"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=483"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=483"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=483"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}