{"id":504,"date":"2025-09-10T22:09:04","date_gmt":"2025-09-10T22:09:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/?p=504"},"modified":"2025-09-10T22:09:06","modified_gmt":"2025-09-10T22:09:06","slug":"sans-mi-kader-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/?p=504","title":{"rendered":"\u015eans m\u0131, Kader mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocuk d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, kendi tercihleriyle de\u011fil; haz\u0131r buldu\u011fu bir hayatla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Kimi varl\u0131kl\u0131 bir evde, kimi yoklu\u011fun g\u00f6lgesinde; kimi sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, kimi \u00f6zel gereksinimlerle do\u011far. Bu farkl\u0131l\u0131klar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman biz yeti\u015fkinlerin zihninde ayn\u0131 soruyu uyand\u0131r\u0131r: <strong>Bu durum \u015fans m\u0131d\u0131r, kader midir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihi boyunca kader kavram\u0131 en \u00e7ok masumlar \u00fczerinden sorgulanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ne se\u00e7im yapacak ne de ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fartlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek g\u00fc\u00e7leri vard\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya geli\u015finde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz e\u015fitsizlik, \u00e7o\u011fu ki\u015fiye \u201cTanr\u0131 adil midir?\u201d ya da \u201c\u015eansa m\u0131 kald\u0131k?\u201d sorular\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130slam inanc\u0131nda kader, Allah\u2019\u0131n her \u015feyi bilmesi ve her \u015feyin bir \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcye g\u00f6re takdir edilmesidir. Ancak bu bilgi, insan\u0131n iradesini ortadan kald\u0131rmaz. \u0130nsan, kendi tercihlerinden sorumludur. Fakat \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n do\u011fduklar\u0131 \u015fartlar onlar\u0131n tercihi de\u011fildir; i\u015fte tam da burada kader kavram\u0131 devreye girer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ebeveynler i\u00e7in imtihan; sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa sab\u0131rla rehberlik etmektir. Kimisi i\u00e7in imtihan, engelli bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu sevgiyle b\u00fcy\u00fctmektir. \u00c7ocuk i\u00e7in ise imtihan, ileride kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 hayat \u015fartlar\u0131na verece\u011fi tepkilerdir. Bu farkl\u0131l\u0131klar, asl\u0131nda Allah\u2019\u0131n kullar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7e\u015fit \u00e7e\u015fit yollarla s\u0131namas\u0131n\u0131n bir yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki, \u201c\u015fans\u201d kavram\u0131 bu denklemin neresindedir? \u015eans \u00e7o\u011funlukla rastgelelik, tesad\u00fcf ve kontrols\u00fczl\u00fck anlam\u0131na gelir. Oysa \u0130slam inanc\u0131 tesad\u00fcfe yer b\u0131rakmaz. Her \u015fey bir d\u00fczen ve hikmet \u00fczere yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya geli\u015findeki farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 \u201c\u015fans\u201d de\u011fil, \u201ckader\u201d olarak g\u00f6rmek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocuk d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; daha 8 ya\u015f\u0131nda yat\u0131l\u0131 bir yurda veriliyor. Orada, askeri usullere benzeyen mutlak itaat gerektiren kurallarla sabah ezan\u0131yla uyand\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor. Daha kendini bile bilmeyen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa dini vecibeler yapt\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor. Anne baba \u015fefkatinden yoksun b\u0131rak\u0131larak, \u00e7ocuklu\u011funun en tatl\u0131 zamanlar\u0131 ona tatt\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuk d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; yurtta ya\u015fananlar\u0131n benzerini kendi evinde ya\u015f\u0131yor. Temel e\u011fitimi i\u00e7in g\u00f6nderildi\u011fi okuldan erken al\u0131n\u0131yor. \u201cD\u0131\u015far\u0131dan okuyacak\u201d denilerek sistemden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor ve bo\u015falan s\u00fcrelerde merdiven alt\u0131 diye tabir edilen medreselere y\u00f6nlendiriliyor. Daha 8 ya\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren dini e\u011fitimler veriliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocuk daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; sabah saat 8\u2019de uyan\u0131yor, ailesiyle g\u00fczel bir kahvalt\u0131 yap\u0131yor. Okuluna ailesi taraf\u0131ndan b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131yor, okuldan al\u0131n\u0131yor. \u00d6\u011fle yeme\u011fini yiyor, bah\u00e7ede bisiklet s\u00fcr\u00fcyor, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla oyun oynuyor. Biraz kitap okuduktan sonra y\u00fczme kursuna gidiyor. Ak\u015fam yeme\u011finin ard\u0131ndan ailesiyle sinema keyfi yap\u0131yor, etkinliklere kat\u0131l\u0131yor, masal dinleyerek uykuya dal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her bir hanede farkl\u0131 ya\u015famlar, kurallar, dini rit\u00fceller, zenginlikler ve yoksulluklar vard\u0131r. S\u0131ralad\u0131\u011f\u0131m t\u00fcm bu olgular, evde ya\u015fayan bireyleri, bilhassa \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 derinden etkiler. \u00c7ocu\u011fun gelecekte nas\u0131l yeti\u015fece\u011fini, e\u011fitimde ne kadar ilerleyebilece\u011fini, hangi mesle\u011fi yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nerede ve nas\u0131l ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirleyen unsurlar aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7ta \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131ndaki e\u015fitsiz gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar, \u0130slam inanc\u0131na g\u00f6re Allah kat\u0131nda ne bir eksiklik ne de bir \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckt\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah, hi\u00e7 kimseye ta\u015f\u0131yamayaca\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fc y\u00fcklemez. Bizim g\u00f6revimiz; bu farkl\u0131l\u0131klar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda merhametli olmak, adaletli davranmak ve sorumluluk bilinciyle hareket etmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n iyi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc kaderi, b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde sahip olduklar\u0131 anne babayla do\u011fru orant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 adaletsizlikleri yukar\u0131da aramak yerine, \u00f6nce kendimizde aramal\u0131y\u0131z. Bir anne ve baba olarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za hangi konularda iyi \u015feyler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya da hangi noktalarda hatal\u0131 oldu\u011fumuzu sorgulamam\u0131z gerekir. Kader inanc\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru tan\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, hayat\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in bir \u201c\u015fansa\u201d d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmemiz m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sonu\u00e7<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kader, yaln\u0131zca ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenleri kabullenmek de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 zamanda elimizden geleni en do\u011fru \u015fekilde yapmakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n hangi ko\u015fullarda d\u00fcnyaya geldi\u011fini biz belirleyemeyiz, fakat onlara nas\u0131l bir hayat sunaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tamamen bizim irademize ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n \u015fefkat, e\u011fitim, sevgi ve adaletle b\u00fcy\u00fcmeleri, bizim ellerimizdedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unutmamak gerekir ki, \u00e7ocuklar bizim imtihan\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r; biz de onlar\u0131n kaderinde \u00f6nemli bir paya sahibiz. Onlara daha adil, daha merhametli ve daha bilin\u00e7li bir d\u00fcnya b\u0131rakmak, belki de hem kaderimizi hem de onlar\u0131n kaderini g\u00fczelle\u015ftirmenin en do\u011fru yoludur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir \u00e7ocuk d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, kendi tercihleriyle de\u011fil; haz\u0131r buldu\u011fu bir hayatla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Kimi varl\u0131kl\u0131 bir evde, kimi yoklu\u011fun g\u00f6lgesinde; kimi sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, kimi \u00f6zel gereksinimlerle do\u011far. Bu farkl\u0131l\u0131klar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman biz yeti\u015fkinlerin zihninde ayn\u0131 soruyu uyand\u0131r\u0131r: Bu durum \u015fans m\u0131d\u0131r, kader midir? \u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihi boyunca kader kavram\u0131 en \u00e7ok masumlar \u00fczerinden sorgulanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ne [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":506,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=504"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/504\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":507,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/504\/revisions\/507"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.codemax.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}