Bir ebeveyn olarak hepimiz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kitaplarla b\u00fcy\u00fcmesini isteriz. Onlar\u0131n hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn geli\u015fmesini, kelime da\u011farc\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n zenginle\u015fmesini, okuma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kazanmalar\u0131n\u0131 arzu ederiz. Bu ama\u00e7la zaman bulduk\u00e7a fuarlardan, marketlerden ya da kitap\u00e7\u0131lardan masal ve hik\u00e2ye kitaplar\u0131 sat\u0131n al\u0131r, evdeki kitapl\u0131\u011fa \u00f6zenle dizeriz. Her ak\u015fam \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za s\u0131ras\u0131yla okutur, bazen de birlikte okumaktan keyif al\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ancak burada dikkatinizi \u00f6nemli bir noktaya \u00e7ekmek istiyorum. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015f ortalamas\u0131 7 ile 14 aras\u0131nda oldu\u011funda, okuduklar\u0131 her metni tam olarak tahayy\u00fcl etme<\/strong> ve de\u011ferlendirme<\/strong> becerisine sahip olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 unutmamam\u0131z gerekir. Onlar\u0131n zihinsel geli\u015fimi hen\u00fcz soyut kavramlar\u0131, toplumsal mesajlar\u0131 veya ince ahlaki detaylar\u0131 tam anlam\u0131yla kavrayabilecek d\u00fczeyde de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Peki, biz ebeveynler olarak bu durumda ne yap\u0131yoruz? Bu noktada ac\u0131 ama ger\u00e7ek bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yay\u0131z. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde yaz\u0131lan bir\u00e7ok \u00e7ocuk kitab\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7eri\u011fi, maalesef toplumumuzun k\u00fclt\u00fcrel ve ahlaki de\u011ferleriyle tam anlam\u0131yla \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcyor. Bir k\u0131sm\u0131 iyi niyetle yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olsa da, baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ruhsal geli\u015fimine zarar verebilecek, onlar\u0131 kendi de\u011ferlerinden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rabilecek unsurlar bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yazar\u0131n kim oldu\u011fu, hangi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131s\u0131na sahip bulundu\u011fu ya da hangi pedagojik yakla\u015f\u0131mla bu kitaplar\u0131 kaleme ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131yor. \u00dcstelik bu kitaplar\u0131n \u201cbandrol\u201d<\/strong> ta\u015f\u0131yor olmas\u0131, yani K\u00fclt\u00fcr Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan sat\u0131\u015f\u0131na izin verilmi\u015f bulunmas\u0131 da i\u00e7eri\u011finin ahlaki ya da k\u00fclt\u00fcrel a\u00e7\u0131dan uygun oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne yaz\u0131k ki b\u00fcrokraside liyakat<\/strong> kavram\u0131 giderek zay\u0131flad\u0131. Bu nedenle baz\u0131 kitaplar gerekli denetimlerden ge\u00e7meden, yaln\u0131zca \u201cresm\u00ee onay\u201d alm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcnerek piyasaya s\u00fcr\u00fclebiliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kendi tecr\u00fcbeme dayanarak s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum: E\u011fer bu kitaplar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00f6nce biz okursak, emin olun ki bir\u00e7o\u011funu onlara okutmak istemeyiz.<\/strong> Aile yap\u0131m\u0131za, inan\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131za, \u00f6rf ve adetlerimize ters d\u00fc\u015fen y\u00fczlerce kitapla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmam\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bu nedenle \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131m \u015fudur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00fctfen bilin\u00e7li ebeveynler olal\u0131m.<\/strong> Unutmayal\u0131m, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ruhu bir tohum gibidir; hangi topra\u011fa d\u00fc\u015ferse oran\u0131n rengini al\u0131r. Bizim g\u00f6revimiz, o topra\u011f\u0131n temiz, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve de\u011ferlerle dolu olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fck m\u00fc: Okumalar\u0131 i\u00e7in ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kitaplar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00f6nce biz okuduk mu?<\/strong>
Yani, o hik\u00e2yeleri ve masallar\u0131 kendi \u00f6rf, inan\u00e7 ve ahlak s\u00fczgecimizden<\/strong> ge\u00e7irdik mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za okutmak \u00fczere ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her kitab\u0131 \u00f6nce biz okuyal\u0131m.
Onu, kendi inan\u00e7 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce s\u00fczgecimizden ge\u00e7irelim.
E\u011fer i\u00e7eri\u011fi bizi tatmin etmiyorsa, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n zihnine ve kalbine de o kitab\u0131 emanet etmeyelim.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n